Points that I base my perspectives on:
There are always exceptions to the rule
Follow the parenting style of your child's mother to the extent that you can
Do not try to compete with your child's mother
Boundaries with the mother(s) need to be drawn by the child's father (or secondary parental figure)
I am Pro-Choice. This is not up for debate, please do not contact me with propaganda. No one loves abortion. It is not a walk in the park and I do not believe that women do it for fun. I believe that it is a very personal, serious, heartbreaking decision. I will not EVER judge a woman who terminates her pregnancy.
When it comes to bringing a baby into the world, it seems that the mother carries more of the responsibilities than the father
Do not have a baby because you are trying to lock a man down into a relationship
Do not have a baby because you're trying to save your relationship
Be your own woman with your own career, ambitions and goals. Be an asset to your relationship, not a drain.
Choosing to not have a biological child is 100% an acceptable choice
Being a biological mother does not make you better than anyone else
I may have ruffled a few feathers. To read more on these bullet points, please click below to read the post that elaborates on them more.